fashion forecast winter 2017
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mission! find the new hosts for korea's center of safety, safety first! who are the 4 hosts that will be jongkook's new co-hosts? (the first host is seen in the green room!) (who is he?) (composer and entertainer yu jaehwan) (he's good at talking) (and he's a bubbly guy!)
oh, hello! goodness gracious... jaehwan, what are you doing? what am i doing? i'm getting my makeup done. i'm no celebrity, but i get this stuff done too. did you sleep well last night? i slept very well. why? i think you did too. i really did.
i slept nearby. i didn't want to be late. a nearby motel. yes, i stayed at a nearby motel. (one person reads his script in the corner!) (seems handsome) (looks like he's a student...) (a teenager host for the show!) oh. hello.
it's the camera. hello. (little kids love him, shin dongwoo) (he's a great host of a kid's show) (he's the yu jaeseok of the new era!) - hello. / - hello. what brings you here today? me? i'm going to be a host for safety first! tell us how you feel about that. i enjoyed the safety first comic books as a kid.
and it feels very interesting to be the new host. i'll do my best as a teenager for the safety of korea. (one man is wary of dongwoo in another room) (popular kbs comedian lee sanghun) (very popular with "wiggle wiggle" on "gag concert") (sanghun is a very popular comedian these days!) hello. you're here as a new host of safety first.
how do you feel? my parents are having a party now. they're so excited. anyone you want to keep in check? teens like either one of two things. "boni hani" or "wiggle wiggle." i'm a bit wary of shin dongwoo. show us a talent into the camera. a talent?
this is my ear. take a look. my own ear... ta-da. but that's not all. i get a phone call. ring, ring. i'll pick up now. hello? (photo shoot for the show's title screen!) (refreshing laughter can be heard on set)
(jaehwan is the first to arrive again) we're going to shoot the title today. try to look like you're escaping danger. what should i do? do this? or do this? - really? / - you can use the chair. then i'll try throwing it and catching it. i'll throw this. i really will. did you get the shot?
(chair shot) - we'll play some music. / - sure, sure. just express how you feel. my goodness! i like dancing by myself. ♪ put your, put your hands up! ♪ (the prince of edm is back) (poor chair) (we're the ones who are embarrassed)
what's this? jongkook! - hello! / - have a seat. - nice to meet you. / - yes. jongkook... (what's this?) (2 hours ago) i'm worried if the new hosts will do a good job.
they have to give out important information. (to test the abilities of the new hosts) when the siren goes off... from back there. i'll come out. (the safety first host abilities test!) we'll start the safety first host abilities test. - a test? / - yes. now that you're a host...
here's the first question. singer and composer yu jaehwan. you put on a lot of concerts. - i do. / - so we prepared this question. what pose should you make to prevent suffocation in a crowded concert hall with many people? please stand up. at a crowded concert hall... turn the table out this way.
- it's crowded now. / - you stay like this. - how? / - beat it! 1, 2, 3. - did you say to beat it? / - i'm sorry! - it's so crowded. / - very crowded now. - the pose! / - i do this. and i'm good. he's supposed to hit me that hard? yes. that was weak. maybe i should hit you.
i'm sorry. - here's the second question. / - this is hard. jaehwan, where is your hometown? - incheon. / - i see. since you're from the coastal city of incheon, we prepared another special question. what motions should you make to safely escape when you fall in a mud flat? - have a seat. you're in water. / - i know this.
- your leg fell in. / - right. start. i do this and slowly get up. then this foot will sink. so i twist this foot like this... 3, 2, 1! - this is hard. / - it is, right? here's the third one. - a savage dog. / - fierce dog.
should you make when you encounter a fierce dog? i totally know this one. i'm the fierce dog. what are you going to do? my goodness... 1, 2, 3! i have no idea. you really seemed like a dog. - what did you call me? / - no! i'm sorry.
let's see your score... - oh, this is terrible. / - what should i do? what will you do if you don't get any right? this is really hard. we've gone over all these things on the show. i see. and sometimes more than once. this is a bad. i'm a bit worried. do you know the new hosts?
i do. who do you think will get a lot of these right? honestly, i think dongwoo. i bet he knows a lot of this stuff since he hosts a kid's show. (is someone talking about me?) (dongwoo the teenage representative) (hello, boni) dongwoo, we'll take a profile photo.
(a photo shoot of him escaping danger) (but then! a phone rings) hello? please give me a call today. let's see who this is on the line. 1, 2... hello? hello, this is safety. oh. safety! safety, what would you like to say on the show? what's going on?
- hey there. / - goodness! hello. - hello. / - have a seat. nice to meet you. we'll save the greetings for later. dongwoo, what year were you born in? - 1998. / - i see. back when turbo was on their 4th album. dongwoo, you're growing up handsome like me. ♪ from head to toe ♪
i've prepared a question about the body. it'll be spring and flowers will be blooming soon. - when there are flowers, there are bees. / - yes. and among them, the scariest are wasps. what part of the body do they attack the most? the arms! (is he right?) (he gets the rubber mallet) (correct answer: head)
he's still growing. gosh, that really made me snap out of it. here's the next one. when there's a concert there are always fireworks. what part of the body is most often injured in firework accidents. imagine it. it's a concert and fireworks are going off. bang! bang!
what part of the body? the eyes! is he right? (correct!) (finally got one) that was a pretty easy one. next question. it's amazing you actually got one right. that's a lot better than someone.
here's the third and last one. dongwoo, what's your favorite food? i like noodles. so we prepared a question about chicken. i knew it... when cooking a whole chicken what part of the body should you check to see if the chicken is fully cooked? the breast.
breast! - legs? / - legs. legs! you said it was legs. - the neck. / - neck? (is he right this time?) - want to keep trying? / - yes, i want to try again. where? - the wings. / - the wings.
(answer: inner thigh) (while dongwoo struggles) (sanghun comes in happily) - here i come. / - you look great. (he's also here for the photo shoot) (a familiar song plays) (he immediately gets into position) i'm a host now. (wiggle, wiggle, wiggle)
(unusual movements) (he's a bit too excited) - hello. / - huh? have a seat. - what is this? / - this is the funniest part! - it is. / - yeah. yes... jongkook. - abilities test? / - yes. we're going back to 2006.
the time was winter 2006. safety host jongkook's mom was home alone when a fire started. why was there a fire at my house? there was a fire at your mom's house? yes, that's right. this was mentioned on the show. this was a question we used. really?
she didn't turn the gas off? the gas? (a fire from not turning the gas off) the gas. (she left the hair dryer on and in a basket) calm down! all viewers are curious about this question. i'm also very curious. i didn't think we'd get this one.
so many people want to know. here it is. when will host jongkook get married? 3, 2, 1. i think in 2 years. - 2 years! / - 2 years. 2 years. yes. there's no answer to this!
how do i get that one right? i know the answer. - next year, next year. / - next year! 2017! (jongkook will get married in 2017?) how many times am i going to be hit? i'll tell you the answer this time. the answer is "soon." (what was that?)
(meanwhile, someone walks with serious footsteps) (very charismatic) (this man is...) (korea's actor park jungyu) (he has charismatic eyes) (veteran actor jungyu) (he'll represent people in their 50s) (actors are different) (he seems so actor-like in his photo shoot)
you're being swept up in a typhoon. (acting) (as expected of jungyu) (but then! the siren goes off) (keeps acting in the emergency situation) (you startled me) have a seat, have a seat. (even jungyu can't avoid the test) this is the host abilities test.
since jungyu is an elder, we prepared true or false questions. o for true and x for false. very simple. jungyu is known for really loving his wife... - is that true? / - yes. you're not just a fool? here's the question. you can get rid of mold with vinegar. o for true and x for false.
(answer: false) who is this? (afterwards, he keeps getting right answers) as expected of an old-timer... an old-timer? i'm not very pleased right now. right. but what can i do? you're an old-timer. here's your last question. jungyu, do you have a fire extinguisher at home? - yes. / - how many?
- 2. / - i see. that's why we prepared this question. a fire extinguisher can be reused. o for true and x for false. can they be reused? - they can! / - they can. yeah. if you couldn't reuse them... this can't be false. is it correct? (what is the answer?)
see? the actual extinguisher is more expensive than the stuff that's inside. just refill that stuff. how do you think the other hosts did? they probably got less than half right. kids these days... - old-timers are different. / - right. lastly,
we'll end it by shouting safety first! - safety... / - together. safety first! (the 5 hosts are finally together) (a new safety first!) the new hosts of safety first! teenager representative shin dongwoo. (more fun) 20s representative yu jaehwan.
(more provocative) 30s representative lee sanghun. (stronger) old-timer representative park jungyu. with hosts in every age group... a new safety first! it starts now. (moms are always curious) (my child's private life)
(a mom's thoughts) (when will my son get home?) (a child's thoughts) (girls, video games) (what we need now is) (communication) (safety talk that parents and children can relate to) a special project of safety first! my child's safe private life.
(being honest about sex) (cheering) it's sex! - nice! / - sex! right. as you can see, on the right are the moms. and on our left are the kids. hello! (mothers and older elementary school students)
jungyu, what do you think of this? even my outfit makes me look like a professor. it's very snazzy. - i'll teach... / - sorry. you look like a gangster. i raise two boys. so things like this are always... wow! i've dealt with this a lot. i'm very curious. what about you all?
you're wearing your wedding tuxedo. - yes, this is a tuxedo. / - for a wedding. - you wore this at your wedding? / - yes, i did. the tuxedo got a lot smaller. dongwoo. he's like an older high school boy to the kids. he probably watches the most at his age. - right. / - he's at an age to be curious. he's at that age.
how was it at that age? he's closest to them. my first experience with that... i was going to school in 4th grade and this girl asked me if i knew the word "nude." she told me to search it on the internet. so i went home and asked my mom, "what's nude?" (what did his mom say?) and then she really yelled at me. that's nothing to be yelled at over.
- the word nude... / - i think nude... is the easiest word to explain. they even have nude rice rolls. - right. / - yes. the word nude is fine. when you watch tv with your family, it's awkward when a racy scene comes on. i'm over 40 now, but i live with my parents. so when stuff like that comes on tv,
it's still embarrassing. embarrassing for who? your parents or you? i think everyone is embarrassed. - everyone? / - yes. we'll talk about various things today and make sure this doesn't happen to you when you turn 40. so it's not awkward at all. we'll talk about things very comfortably today.
so that we can communicate better, we brought in a special host. there's nobody quite like her. she's this era's safe sex mentor for kids. give ku seongae a round of applause! (a mom and sex education teacher ku seongae) - hello, teacher. / - hello. i've always wanted to meet you as a kid. i've wanted to meet you.
so many things i've been curious about. i wanted to bring her my notepad in my desk drawer that i wrote in as a kid. how does it feel to be with 5 men? these days, the sex culture is so different for mothers and children. so we have some old-timers here and the new era here. so we have mothers, old-timers,
the new era and the children. let's try to merge sex. good suggestion. we're talking about sex. let's take a look at today's topic. for kids back in the day... disease and war were the scariest disasters. what about kids these days?
it can be seen with one click from the internet, a smart phone or sns site. this is the scariest disaster. today's theme is pornography. the first theme is pornography. we call them dirty movies. we can talk about porn on this show now? - this show got pretty racy. / - yes. it's for the children's safety.
this is very necessary. - precisely. / - something should be done. these days, even young children watch porn. jungyu, i'm very curious. when did... did they have dirty movies back then? not then. it was hard to see a video clip. the first pornographic material i came across was a comic book. a dirty comic. right.
i wasn't like, "this is so cool and awesome." how did you feel then? it was gross. - the way it's expressed... / - it wasn't pretty. in my era, they weren't analog like a video. they were avi video files. - on the computer. / - they were downloaded. since they were downloaded... you've heard this expression before.
watch a video tape until you wear it out. you can't wear a computer file out. - they're permanent. / - they never wear out. - watch it over and over... / - tapes wear out. but they're always fine. always... - jaehwan, you sound too excited. / - yes... please tone it down. there are children present. how many kids are watching porn these days? back in the day, especially with dads...
they were just cute videos we've all seen. they'd rent videos and say, "this one's awesome!" - there was an exchange. / - right. that means it'll stop you from getting addicted. but with kids these days, they watch it by themselves and not together. they can think whatever they want. we watch it together because it's so precious and rare.
we don't want anyone to be led astray. the students here today are in 5th and 6th grade. they're at the age where they establish their notions on sex forever. these notions will influence them in every aspect... - once they become adults. / - right. but parents can't do anything about this. why?
have you heard the terms digital native and digital immigrant? immigrant... digital. these are terms used world-wide. if you're born into a digital environment. then you're a native. like a kid born after his parents immigrate to the u.s. and the moms are there now.
we can't keep up with our children when it comes to handling the digital stuff. even if we try to keep them in line, our children will become far more advanced than us. because they're natives. their senses are different from us. that's why moms and children fight a lot now. they're harder to control now and you're worried. and kids tend to ignore their parents, right?
they ignore them. so moms can't do anything. how do you think your child would first come across porn? - on their smart phone? / - right now, yes. over 80% see it by chance. a 3rd grade girl saw it by chance and she couldn't stop watching. she watched porn for 1 year.
it totally affected her. objects looked different to her. the earlier you watch it, the more you watch it, the more focused you are when you watch it... so the child came to me to remove the thoughts in her head. she wanted to forget. she couldn't take it anymore. isn't it hard to forget that?
there are a lot of kids like that now. it's kind of like pollution. that's right. very powerful. i'm curious about this and jungyu is here too. isn't it tricky if your child suddenly asks you about that? i bet. but for my boys... - i don't know. kids... / - they've never asked? - kids these days... / - i'm curious.
they talk amongst themselves to judge things. i don't think they ask about sex. now we'll have a test to see how well we can answer these questions from kids in 60 seconds. this is about porn. when your kid asks, "dad, what's porn?" - how do you answer? / - that's hard. let's hear from the old-timer
park jungyu first. you have to answer in 60 seconds. dad, what's porn? - action. / - porn... time's running. you know what a video clip is. moving pictures. - but it's racy. / - what's racy? it means... sharing love... how do i answer this? i don't know.
what's racy? is it a race? - is it like, "hey!" / - what's it like? shut your mouth, boy. it should be okay if they're about racing. porn is... they love each other and they've agreed to act on their love. that's porn. then i'm going to watch you two love each other.
- let me watch this clip. / - don't! wait! no! a video clip the entire family watches. then let's watch it together, dad! this is tricky. i'm all sweaty. 1! time's up! so out of the blue... i'm sweaty. let's ask sanghun this time. first of all...
- when a man and woman... / - yes... - are naked... / - what's naked? naked? why? why? - why are they naked? / - why no clothes? you know you strip and it's embarrassing when i bathe you. - it's an embarrassing video clip. / - embarrassing? when we're naked it's not embarrassing...
- it is. / - right, it is. - it could be natural. / - then i'll watch it! you shouldn't watch it now. then when? what time? well... geez... it's good to watch late at night, but it's not for you guys now. - why not? / - why not? that's a good question.
very good question... - 3, 2, 1. / - it's not good to watch it often. - this is hard. / - way too hard. i'm in trouble. i'm in trouble if i have a son. jaehwan, you give it a shot. jaehwan, what's porn? seriously the thing is... with porn... do you know what racy means? racy...
that's why i'm asking. what's racy? racy means... first, your body can change a bit. - that's what racy means? / - change how? with the blood circulating in your body... watching something racy, will improve circulation? then i should watch this. it's good for blood circulation. 4, 3, 2, 1.
how do i answer this? - i've never seen jaehwan turn red. / - gosh... i didn't know what to say. - he talked so fast. / - this is so hard. dongwoo, let's say a younger boy asks. dongwoo, what's porn? porn? where did you hear that term? - answer my question. / - i don't know. you must have a girl you like.
you want to hold her hand and kiss her. it's a bit more than that... - that's racy? / - that's racy? is that a bad thing? it's a good thing. - then i'd better watch it! / - no, no, no! it's unrealistic! very unrealistic! 2, 1. - this is really hard. / - it really is.
we can't just skip jongkook. me? this is hard. there's no time to think. jongkook, what's porn? porn... you guys watch a lot of video clips these days. they're easy to come by. but porn is hard to watch when you're young. you guys shouldn't watch it
because it's hard to understand when you're young. my friend knows all about this stuff. he must've heard from a grown-up. you should watch it after hearing an explanation. what kind of explanation? you explain it, jongkook. what to accept and what not to. that direction. - safe knowledge... / - what's direction?
if you guys... if you guys watch safety first... afterwards... if you come across porn, you won't be shocked. it can be very shocking. so if you want to watch porn it would be good to ask a grown-up. (the veteran host is good)
the biggest porn watcher is the best at this. you're an expert. an expert. so we'll find out now who gave the best explanation for kids. ready. 1, 2, 3. - i'm excited. / - please vote. who do you think got the most votes? - i say jongkook. / - me too.
- it was very well put. / - really? i don't know who the best was, but i know who the worst was. i also think i got 5th place. i didn't say anything. shall we take a look now to see if i really won? how many votes did i get? please show us. (28 out of 30 kids!) except for 2 kids.
- 2 votes. / - what a relief. - i want those 2 votes! / - i'm curious. i'm not curious about the 2 votes. i'm curious who got zero. zero votes. 1 vote. of course everyone would vote for jongkook. the remaining 2 votes are for popularity. they voted for who they like.
- dongwoo got one. / - he said some good stuff. let's see who got the second most votes. (who got the 2 votes?) (sanghun got 1 vote!) what a twist. (celebratory "wiggle wiggle" dance) (i feel great!) - that was for your popularity. / - kids like me. (so cocky)
i don't know. let's see who got the remaining 1 vote. - who got it? / - i hope jaehwan got it. (dongwoo got 1 vote!) i don't even remember what i said. who voted for me? this boy. - sit next to him. / - hello. what grade are you in?
- 6th grade now. / - i see. why did you like my opinion? you're so handsome. - he likes him! / - i like the sound of that! that's why he voted for you! nice! very nice. it wasn't my opinion you liked. you just like my face. i see. so that's the only reason?
he expressed himself, so i could understand. - that's why i voted. / - i see. - thank you. / - thank you. we're curious about this too. how should you handle it when kids ask you about sex? the most important thing is to make the child honestly tell you what they're feeling. you have to really listen. parents are making the mistake of being shocked.
- "where'd you see that?" / - they get angry. - then the kids will stay silent. / - right. try to hear their point of view on where and how they came across that. that's right. so we talked about porn which is the most well-known thing with racy content. but porn is different from a movie. people get naked and have sex in moves too.
- but they don't call that porn. / - right. because there's a story. there's a story and a relationship. love or hate... but in porn, all of that is taken out. no emotions. it emphasizes specific parts of the body by photographing that area, touching that area or acting on it. focused on that area.
and disregarding everything else. - very easy to understand. / - no story. they're different from movies. - just the act. / - totally. everyone can watch and come across porn. but not everyone becomes addicted. there should be a way to avoid addiction. is there anything like that? how can we prevent ourselves?
test yourself. test yourself. censor yourself. then you can stay centered. - right. you can't not watch it. / - right. why not? they call this addiction. jaehwan. did you keep wanting to watch it? how was it at first? after i downloaded my first one,
i ended up downloading around 200. i kept downloading more and more. - i kept wanting to watch more. / - i bet you did. and i kept seeing it in my head. what is an attribute of porn? you keep watching it even though you know it's bad. so what's the problem now? don't hate yourself for wanting to watch it. even if you see it by chance and keep watching it...
it's natural. acknowledge that to escape addiction. "i must be a weirdo. i must be a pervert." don't think like that. you're supposed to want to keep watching it. here's the second stage. if you keep watching, you crave for something more hardcore. you feel this with all your senses. - more hardcore. / - that's how he got 200 files. i was up to stage 2.
- you said earlier. / - you keep wanting more. jungyu, you said you wanted something pretty. but that's impossible. they want the hard stuff. the light stuff becomes boring. it doesn't matter if you're a good person, listen to your parents or get good grades. everyone is the same about this. craving harder stuff increases the addiction. i'm really curious.
if the addiction is severe, do people really go to hospitals and get medicine for that? - in real life. / - sure. when they think of that. they take medicine to suppress those thoughts. they're severely addicted. and we're seeing an increase in numbers. there are more of them now? because they see porn as kids on smart phones. the third stage of addiction is
becoming insensitive. insensibility. everything is no big deal. - that's serious. / - that's not right. when it gets to that stage... "watching that didn't affect me at all." "that didn't hurt at all." but they've become so obsessed with porn until they become insensitive.
dongwoo, what do you think the last stage is? - is it to take action? / - that's right. the acting stage. - right. / - you're smart. you must've watched a lot. they want to do what they watched and act on it. so according to a survey done in korea, it's an inverted triangle. they keep watching, they look for harder stuff, don't care what they watch
and then they act on it. they become addicted and act on their addiction. now what percent of the people surveyed were at this stage? - it can't be that much. / - the minority. - probably the minority. / - the minority? it's 5%. that's a lot. that's a lot of people.
among youths that have watched porn. all the youths in korea were surveyed. that's a lot. 5% is not small. if you go to a basketball game, that's 10,000 people. - it's like 500 of them are thinking like that. / - right. then what grade do you think the kids are when they act on this the most? moms, what do you think? nationwide survey. it's grades 5 and 6.
5th and 6th grade kids touch without thinking. they had the most cases. for high school kids, they think they have to do it when they get a girlfriend. they think it's part of the relationship. that's when you have some judgment. - they know they can't touch anyone. / - right. but 5th and 6th graders have no rules. so them imitating porn is very dangerous.
here's one. has your child... or for kids, have you... ever seen porn? - you have to be honest. / - press the button. kids, if you've seen porn, press the button. i'm sure all the mothers have seen it before. what are you doing? moms, we're talking about your kids. 1, 2, 3. press the button. dongwoo, what do you think the results will be?
i bet not many mothers pressed the button. i bet they think their child has never seen porn. then let's see how many people. (what do the moms think?) - what if it's double digits? / - no way. - 8 moms. / - i told you it would be less than 10. moms still trust their children. but this is the smart phone era. you can watch porn very discreetly.
any kid here with a smart phone? - all of them. / - almost all of them. it's over 80%. if they have one friend that can get past that adult verification... - they're all good. / - boom. i did a joke like that in my old skit "thank you." ♪ i put in my dad's id number ♪ ♪ to secretly look at a porn site ♪
♪ but my dad's already a vip member, thank you ♪ that's funny. - i liked that skit. / - i really liked that skit too. then let's see how many kids pushed the button. moms, try not to look too shocked. let's see the results from the kids. i have seen porn before. please show us the results. i bet it's a lot.
will it be 15? i knew it! (shocked!) see? 15. the moms are shocked. ma'am, please get it together. it's okay. did you think that your child watched it before? yes, i voted yes. you did? hold on. who's your child?
whose mom is this? isn't it that kid? they look alike. (the boy that likes dongwoo!) isn't he your family? yes, he is. why do you think he watched porn? i guess i don't think my boy is very innocent. they all come across it early from smart phones or the internet,
so i figured he snuck a peek when i wasn't around. and he hit puberty. have you watched before? did you press yes? what? no! - you didn't press? / - you didn't? - for real? / - yes. - you've never watched it before? / - yes. - not even once? / - what? (flustered at all the questions...)
i think he's seen it before! - you've honestly never seen it before? / - yes. but sometimes when i go on the internet... - like news sites... / - right. those porn banners come up automatically. - you were mistaken about your son. / - right. this is a chance to speak your mind in front of your moms to steer things in a good direction. so don't be too worried about that stuff.
who has a son and thinks that he has never watched porn? right here. - you think he's never watched. / - never. i think so. he's still so innocent. he has an older sister. he was a late child. maybe i still see him as a baby. - an older sister... / - i think he's innocent.
- how old is the sister? / - she'll be in 11th grade. you never thought that she could've shown him? why would his older sister show him that? - it could happen. / - it could. why is it different for adults when they watch? it's the same for adults. adults have cognitive awareness. "i should not do this to others." - no action. / - even if they become insensitive...
you can moderate yourself if you become insensitive as an adult. but if you become like that as a kid, it's a big problem. you become 8 times more aggressive right after watching porn. - 8 times more? / - your impulses. here's an account. a kid was watching porn by himself
and then he had to go to academy. his mom asked, "did you go to academy?" "i'm going!" so he stopped watching and went. he’s on the elevator on his way to academy and there’s a 7-year-old girl there. he suddenly remembers the scene he just saw. he thinks, "maybe i should try it." he takes the girl to the emergency stairwell and
takes action which makes the girl cry. he hits her. - to get her to be quiet. / - no self-control. what do you think happened to this kid? the 7-year-old told her parents. they reported it to the police. the boy had to be investigated. what do you think happened to the 6th grade boy? he become even more mentally ill. why? because he came back from academy
and things were crazy. the police were there, the girl’s family was there... he never imagined this. he just watched some porn and tried it out. he never imagined that it's a crime. he had to go through all this chaos with the police that he's been traumatized. he trembles whenever the doorbell rings. he thinks someone is after him.
there are many offenders like this. of course, the daughter's family hates the offender. but the problem was that this happened because he went to academy right after watching pron. it's still not easy to talk about porn. now we'll talk about what you should do if you catch your child watching porn. i want to ask this first. - have you experienced this? / - i have not.
your boys are very thorough. we have two computers in the living room. - no computers in the bedrooms. / - that's good. we all use the computers out there. one time my computer was broken, so i used the other one and i found a ton of porn. they thought it was gone if they put it in the bin. you have to empty the bin to totally delete a file, so there were a bunch of files in there.
they tried to delete them. i told them. "that's not how you delete something. your mom could be hurt if she sees this." so i taught them how to empty the bin. - how nice. / - i taught them. now they delete them right away, which is kind of a shame. i've never been caught. it's like...
i'm home alone and watching. but when my mom comes home, it feels weird. i get this weird feeling. and then my mom asks. i answer her because i feel guilty. - i admitted i was watching. / - you told her? my mom was very firm at first. "don't watch that." but after junior high,
my mom seems more considerate. if my door is locked, she doesn't disturb me. or she knocks. i had my room and my mom was always in the living room. i thought closing my door would seem suspicious, so i left the door open. i was in a blind spot. my mom was watching tv. my room was in back.
so i watched secretly with the door open. i watched like that for almost a year. but after a year i realized there was a mirror on the opposite side of the monitor! it took a whole year! wow, what a twist. sad predictions always come true. i took a look from my mom's spot and i could see the monitor very clearly.
i felt so embarrassed around my mom afterwards. your mom feigned ignorance. yes, she probably knew. just like the moms said... it's shocking for someone to get caught. but when the kids are asked, "what is that? how does it make you feel? is it fun?" some girls have said it's scary. "this weird stuff keeps popping up on screen."
it's important for a parent to tell their child that there is more to relationships. you have to shake them up to change their perception. "watch a bit more and ask me if there's something weird." they should tell you the level of what they see. very unrealistic content can make you strange. - so that should be avoided. / - right.
right. you can't just scold a kid for watching porn. they've been exposed to too much of it for you to just tell them to stop watching it. so we should take her good advice. so that's why when you watch tv with your children, you should speak to them honestly. it's not about your mom not liking it.
you all don't know now. it's just so interesting now. but later on when you're adults, you'll find that you've changed. i've been counseling people for 30 years, so i know this stuff. which is why i'm telling you. listen to me and keep these things in mind.
here's a quiz. let's see what it says. if you watch porn you might be unable to do blank. what could it be? anything that comes to mind? - what do you think it is? / - think. you'll be unable to think. unable to think about what? you made a good point.
you have to think when you study. but you might keep thinking about that. - you can't think normal thoughts. / - makes sense. - that's correct too. / - right. anyone else? we had a girl. back there. what do you think you'll be unable to do? - focus. / - you won't be able to focus. focus on what?
your social life or studies. you'll be unable to focus on those things. because every relationship looks like that. the kid up there. - yes. / - this one. they're so smart. when you try to do that with someone, you don't think of their point of view and opinions. give her a hand.
exactly what i wanted to say. that's so true. when you do something to someone, you won't think of their point of view. the important answer came out, so we can stop. we don't need any other answers. such a good job. - real love. / - you can't have real love. many kids ask me...
students of all ages up to high school. "how is real love different from porn?" they ask me the difference. let's say you all find someone you love and you've never watched porn before. if you love that person, you feel nervous around them and you want to hold their hand and all that. what would you do if you haven't seen porn, jongkook?
if i haven't... it's hard to say because i already have. i bet there's a process. a process, a plot... i express that i want to hold her. i'd make it precious. i'd try really hard to earn her favor. that's why that kid said the right answer. what we're talking about is mutuality.
you haven't seen it. so is it okay to do? sorry. alright. i want it, but you can find out what the other person wants by talking. right. you should be considerate. let's say you've watched a lot. you develop a desire. and what happens when you watch again while thinking about that? "so a girl likes it if you do that."
"this is what girls are like." that's what happens. it's easy for them to misunderstand women. and they think it's easy. what's really unfortunate is that porn doesn't show a hundredth of a woman's body. it just repeats. it only shows certain parts. it really distorts sex.
but that's not all there is. that's only a part of sex. this is more for the guys. you can become blank if you watch porn. what could you become? your name is sanghyeok, right? you can become an oktaku if you watch porn. - otaku. / - otaku. being addicted.
you get so into that stuff, you can't function socially. - kid with the glasses. / - give him the mic. he held his hand high. you can become a pervert if you watch porn. okay! pervert is right and so is oktaku. you can become a sex offender if you watch a lot of porn. - sex offender! / - give him a hand. you all are so smart.
way better than my junior high kids. - we heard the answer. / - sex offender. you can become a sex offender if you watch porn. this is the biggest problem. - it can lead to actions. / - that's right. first you want to see a person’s genitals or breasts in real life. see. then you want to touch to see how it feels.
touch. that could be all, but later you could want to copy the action you saw. copy. these three things happen. that's why the most urgent thing parents have to tell their children about this is that... of course, it's best not to watch, but if they do, and they're aroused by it
they should never touch others. that's most important. one thing porn gives you is... jaehwan, you mentioned it. it stays in your head. jaehwan, what stayed in your head? - from back then? / - yes. what's it about? i can't say this on tv. - no. just be vague. / - i can't say it.
right. you can't forget about these shocking things you see as a kid. younger kids are more inclined to become obsessed with genitals. that's what happens. so my last request is for the children to remember the dangers we discussed and stay centered even if you watch.
don't be deceived. and if something seems strange, ask your parents. so that you don't go beyond that. parents, this is important. it's the new semester. kids will be really stressed then. that's when they'll turn to sex. so it's important to eliminate stress. no matter what your kid does
make sure they know they're loved. studies show that exercise can block addiction. - i'm all about exercising. / - right. - you're not addicted to porn. / - i'm not. i don't even use a smart phone. so i can't watch that stuff. i want to say something to the dads. especially dads with sons. your sons might think that's what sex is.
they should learn about women properly and not learn about women from porn. that's what you should really emphasize. let's all raise our children well! to become great men... i learned a lot about sex today. mrs. ku helped me understand a lot of things i was curious about. i'll pay more attention to my child
and look after her more. as a mother of a boy and girl, i got a lot of good information. it was good. next episode... 1 out of 4 people. when? when i was 7 or 8 years old. (such a generation gap!)
moms don't know. - i feel betrayed. / - really? did you do it? how to be physically affectionate. going right into physical affection. just like holding hands... kissing... the kids reveal their secrets. my child's private life. the next episode will be on dating. this is safety news.
this is for people who find dangerous substances. the ministry of public safety and security has set february 15 to april 30 as a time for a diagnosis for national security. they're taking safety reports. anything you find that can be considered dangerous can be reported. you can easily make these reports
on the website or the application. who should i report my overflowing charm to? if being charming is a crime, i'd be locked up! (even more embarrassed) - this has been safety news. / - i'm sorry. thank you. ("anyone" by nam youngjoo)
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